• Latest
  • All
Going Platonic

Going Platonic

January 13, 2022
Jersey’s trans inclusion guidance sparks parental outrage

Jersey’s trans inclusion guidance sparks parental outrage

May 27, 2025
IOF’s joint statement for the 2022 Commission on the Status of Women

Protect and Promote Your National Treasure! IOF’s joint statement for the 2025 International Day of Families

May 15, 2025
Former Louisville University professor wins $1.6 million over dismissal for criticism of transgender treatments for children

Former Louisville University professor wins $1.6 million over dismissal for criticism of transgender treatments for children

April 26, 2025
This file is licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 4.0 International license. Author: Alfredo Borba

Pope Francis passed away at the age of 88

April 21, 2025
Author: Tom Morris

U.K. Supreme Court defines woman based on biological sex

April 16, 2025
New Colorado bill punishes moms and dads for rejecting trans ideology

New Colorado bill punishes moms and dads for rejecting trans ideology

April 5, 2025
Female fencer Stephanie Turner faces penalties for refusal to compete against transgender opponent

Female fencer Stephanie Turner faces penalties for refusal to compete against transgender opponent

April 3, 2025
Georgia Governor to sign Riley Gaines Act of 2025, safeguarding women’s sports from transgender ideology

Georgia Governor to sign Riley Gaines Act of 2025, safeguarding women’s sports from transgender ideology

April 2, 2025
Humanity’s indispensable but unsung heroes

Humanity’s indispensable but unsung heroes

March 18, 2025
AfD politician slams leftist abortion agenda in staunchly pro-life speech

AfD politician slams leftist abortion agenda in staunchly pro-life speech

March 12, 2025
  • About iFamNews
  • Contact

Navigation Button Subscribe

  • Subscribe
June 4, 2025
  • Login
  • Register
No Result
View All Result
  • English
    • Italiano
    • Español
    • Français
    • Deutsch
    • Polski
    • српски
    • Русский
    • Hrvatski

Navigation Button Donate

  • Donate
International Family News Network (IFN)
  • Home
  • Opinion
  • Life
  • Family
  • Culture
  • Politics
  • Entertainment
  • Science
  • Shows
  • Petitions
  • Subscribe
  • Donate
International Family News Network (IFN)
  • Home
  • Opinion
  • Life
  • Family
  • Culture
  • Politics
  • Entertainment
  • Science
  • Shows
  • Petitions
  • Subscribe
  • Donate
No Result
View All Result
International Family News Network (IFN)
No Result
View All Result

Going Platonic

Nicole King by Nicole King
January 13, 2022
in Breaking News, Foreground, Opinion
728
Reading Time: 2 mins read
0
Going Platonic
Share on FacebookShare on WhatsAppShare on TelegramShare on TwitterShare on WeChat

What happens when you feel closer to your best friend than to any romantic partner you’ve ever dated? Or when you’re not really interested in marriage, but want to build a life with someone?

If you’re April Lexi Lee and Renee Wong, you enter a “platonic life partnership.” In a USA Today profile earlier this week, the couple argued for normalizing other definitions of love. Their relationship, they say, is just as if not more committed, respectful, and strategic than a marriage—but completely lacking any romantic or sexual component. The couple defines their partnership as “a deep platonic love and also a commitment to each other, like marriage, where we are trying to build the next step for our lives together,” including things like a joint bank account, buying a house together, and even starting a family.

Another couple profiled in the piece—Jay Guercio and best friend Krystle—go one step farther. The couple “platonically married” in November 2020, and now raise an adopted son together. (Lee and Wong each have dating lives of their own, but are clear that their first commitment is to each other.) Says Guercio, “We want to raise kids the same way. We have the same ideas as [to] what finances should look like. We are already symbiotic in how we work. . . . it just made sense to start building the life that we wanted to live together.”

Counselor and sexologist Cyndi Darnell tells USA Today that in her opinion, platonic partnerships “can ‘absolutely’ be as successful as a traditional marriage, because ‘partnership is based on shared values.’” Other supporters of the idea of platonic marriages or life partnerships argue that their reasons for entering these arrangements are far more stable and enduring than mere sexual or romantic attraction.

What are we to make of this? We can all acknowledge that friendship is great. If two people want to be friends, pursue a friendship with intentionality, maybe even be roommates or buy a house together, more power to them. The part of this story that should disturb us are the words “marriage” or “life partnership.” These couples aren’t just trying to be friends. They’re trying to imitate the best of marriage, in a relationship that is decidedly not a marriage. They’re watering down the meaning of the word even further, by stripping it of its erotic or creative potential. And they’re involving not only themselves, but any children who may somehow or other find their way into these households—in spite of decades of research demonstrating that a married, mother-father household is the best arrangement for the well-being of children.

Our societal views on love are disordered in a way that only Plato himself could explain.

Tags: Marriage
Nicole King

Nicole King

Nicole M. King is the Managing Editor of IOF's journal, The Natural Family: An International Journal of Research and Policy, the United States’ leading journal of family-policy research. In that capacity, she writes, edits and corresponds with editors and contributors to ensure that each issue provides the most relevant and accurate research and policy analysis available. Nicole holds a B.A. in English as well as M.A.s in English and Political Theory. She has contributed to The Front Porch Republic and Chronicles: A Magazine of American Culture, among others. She is also a contributing editor to SALVO Magazine and a blogger at salvomag.com.

Discussion about this post

Popular News

  • Jersey’s trans inclusion guidance sparks parental outrage

    Jersey’s trans inclusion guidance sparks parental outrage

    0 shares 18 VIEWS
    Share 0 Tweet 0
  • Justice continues with the proceedings against the organizers of the procession of the “Santina Queer” in Gijon after the complaint of Christian Lawyers.

    0 shares 17 VIEWS
    Share 0 Tweet 0
  • Christian Lawyers request to Justice the withdrawal of a coloring booklet in the city hall of Ciudad Real(Spain)

    0 shares 17 VIEWS
    Share 0 Tweet 0
  • Christian Lawyers once again paralyzes the demolition of a cross, in this case in Teruel (Spain).

    0 shares 9 VIEWS
    Share 0 Tweet 0
  • Christian Lawyers takes to court the government’s request for the resignification of the Valley for including parts of the Basilica, such as the Chapel of the Blessed Sacrament.

    0 shares 8 VIEWS
    Share 0 Tweet 0

IFN – International Family News Network

© 2022 IFN – International Family News - All Rights Reserved.

Quick Links

  • About iFamNews
  • Contact Us
  • Privacy Policy

Follow Us

Welcome Back!

Login to your account below

Forgotten Password? Sign Up

Create New Account!

Fill the forms below to register

All fields are required. Log In

Retrieve your password

Please enter your username or email address to reset your password.

Log In
Subscribe

No Result
View All Result
  • Home
  • Opinion
  • Life
  • Family
  • Culture
  • Politics
  • Entertainment
  • Science
  • Shows
  • Petitions
  • Subscribe
  • Donate

  • en English
  • it Italiano
  • es Español
  • fr Français
  • de Deutsch
  • pl Polski
  • sr српски
  • ru Русский
  • hr Hrvatski
  • Login
  • Sign Up

© 2022 IFN – International Family News - All Rights Reserved.