{"id":207178,"date":"2023-08-04T03:45:00","date_gmt":"2023-08-04T07:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ifamnews.com\/?p=207178"},"modified":"2023-08-04T03:36:12","modified_gmt":"2023-08-04T07:36:12","slug":"3-qualit-s-d-un-bon-amour-et-1-d-un-mauvais","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ifamnews.com\/fr\/3-qualit-s-d-un-bon-amour-et-1-d-un-mauvais","title":{"rendered":"3 qualit\u00e9s d&rsquo;un bon amour (et 1 d&rsquo;un mauvais)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-el-buen-amor-es-ambicioso-y-responsable\">1. Le bon amour est \u00ab\u00a0ambitieux\u00a0\u00bb (et \u00ab\u00a0responsable\u00a0\u00bb)<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Qui <strong>\n  <em>aime bien<\/em>\n<\/strong> ne veut pas seulement que l&rsquo;\u00eatre aim\u00e9 soit, existe, mais aspire de toute son \u00e2me \u00e0 \u00eatre bon : \u00e0 atteindre la pl\u00e9nitude de la perfection \u00e0 laquelle il est appel\u00e9 et, avec elle, le bonheur, la joie.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Elle recherche la pl\u00e9nitude de l&rsquo;\u00eatre aim\u00e9 et ne s&rsquo;arr\u00eate pas tant qu&rsquo;elle n&rsquo;est pas atteinte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Il ne se soucie pas des d\u00e9faites, de la honte et de la douleur qui les accompagnent :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Il revient sans cesse \u00e0 la charge, assumant le risque d&rsquo;\u00eatre \u00e0 nouveau vaincu.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C&rsquo;est pr\u00e9cis\u00e9ment parce qu&rsquo;il aime, et qu&rsquo;il aime bien, que le d\u00e9veloppement et l&rsquo;\u00e9panouissement de la personne aim\u00e9e lui importent infiniment plus que sa propre souffrance.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>Celui qui aime bien ne veut pas seulement que l&rsquo;\u00eatre aim\u00e9 existe, mais aspire de tout son c\u0153ur \u00e0 \u00eatre bon.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-el-buen-amor-es-clarividente-y-responsable\">2. Le bon amour est \u00ab\u00a0clairvoyant\u00a0\u00bb (et \u00ab\u00a0responsable\u00a0\u00bb)<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Il anticipe la perfection future de l&rsquo;\u00eatre aim\u00e9&#8230; et s&rsquo;efforce de l&rsquo;atteindre !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le bon amour n&rsquo;est pas aveugle, mais perspicace : il ne d\u00e9couvre pas seulement la grandeur actuelle de la personne aim\u00e9e, mais anticipe sa perfection future, ce qu&rsquo;elle est appel\u00e9e \u00e0 \u00eatre (et s&rsquo;efforce de l&rsquo;atteindre !).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Quand on tombe amoureux, <\/strong>sans le vouloir et sans s&rsquo;en rendre compte, par la force m\u00eame de l&rsquo;amour, on anticipe toutes les merveilles que l&rsquo;autre est appel\u00e9 \u00e0 \u00eatre, on les lui attribue d\u00e9j\u00e0&#8230; et on s&rsquo;en r\u00e9jouit : d&rsquo;o\u00f9 l&rsquo;immense plaisir du sentiment amoureux.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><em>Le prodige ?<\/em><\/strong>  Que nous d\u00e9couvrons, sans y penser express\u00e9ment et sans le moindre effort, par la \u00ab\u00a0magie\u00a0\u00bb m\u00eame de l&rsquo;amour, toute la perfection future.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><em>Le danger ?<\/em><\/strong>  Ne pas vouloir comprendre que cette perfection est \u00e0 venir, fruit d&rsquo;un amour r\u00e9ciproque, et qu&rsquo;il faudra se battre pour cela pendant notre mariage, en unissant nos forces dans un combat joyeux mais continu.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><em>La solution ?<\/em><\/strong>  Lorsque nous nous marions, de rendre pr\u00e9sente la perfection que nous avons \u00ab\u00a0anticip\u00e9e\u00a0\u00bb, mais de la mettre devant nous \u00ab\u00a0comme avenir\u00a0\u00bb et \u00ab\u00a0comme cons\u00e9quence d&rsquo;un bon amour\u00a0\u00bb&#8230; et de nous engager s\u00e9rieusement, de tout notre \u00eatre, \u00e0 y tendre !<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\n  <em>Avec chaque enfant<\/em>\n<\/strong> il se passe quelque chose de tr\u00e8s semblable : nous \u00ab\u00a0r\u00eavons\u00a0\u00bb aussi de leur perfection future et nous la leur accordons maintenant, sans aucun effort, avec l&rsquo;immense satisfaction que cela nous procure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>\n  <em>Le prodige <\/em>\n<\/strong>y<strong>\n  <em> le danger ?<\/em>\n<\/strong> Un peu comme tomber amoureux : la complaisance sans lutte.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><em>La solution ?  <\/em><\/strong>Une dose suffisante de bon amour, qui fait passer le bien de l&rsquo;enfant avant le sien (ce qui &#8211; je le regrette &#8211; n&rsquo;est pas si fr\u00e9quent aujourd&rsquo;hui).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Aimer un enfant :<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>\n  <em>non<\/em>\n<\/strong> est de s&rsquo;assurer \u00e0 tout moment que <strong>\n  <em>se sentir bien <\/em>\n<\/strong>et, par cons\u00e9quent, de se sentir bien nous-m\u00eames, sans \u00eatre confront\u00e9s aux probl\u00e8mes que l&rsquo;\u00e9ducation entra\u00eene ;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>\n  <em>mais<\/em>\n<\/strong> mais de s&rsquo;efforcer de l&rsquo;aider \u00e0 <strong>\n  <em>\u00e0 \u00eatre meilleur, <\/em>\n<\/strong>m\u00eame si cela lui donne et nous donne du fil \u00e0 retordre : la qualit\u00e9 de l&rsquo;\u00e9ducation se mesure aujourd&rsquo;hui \u00e0 la capacit\u00e9 de souffrir pour faire souffrir ceux qu&rsquo;on aime le plus, tant que c&rsquo;est <strong>\n  <em>essentiel <\/em>\n<\/strong>pour lui<strong>\n  <em>.<\/em>\n<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>Le bon amour anticipe toutes les merveilles que l&rsquo;\u00eatre aim\u00e9 est appel\u00e9 \u00e0 \u00eatre&#8230; et s&rsquo;efforce de les concr\u00e9tiser.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-el-buen-amor-es-justo-y-responsable\">3. Le bon amour est \u00ab\u00a0juste\u00a0\u00bb (et \u00ab\u00a0responsable\u00a0\u00bb)<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Il donne \u00e0 chaque r\u00e9alit\u00e9 la valeur qu&rsquo;elle m\u00e9rite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Bien qu&rsquo;il essaie de nous le cacher, il est tout \u00e0 fait \u00ab\u00a0m\u00e9taphysique\u00a0\u00bb. Il d\u00e9couvre sans trop d&rsquo;effort et comme sans en faire tout un plat, que.. :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Les bonnes qualit\u00e9s n&rsquo;existent pas seulement, elles <strong>\n  <em>elles sont :<\/em>\n<\/strong><em> <\/em>elles ont un \u00ab\u00a0\u00eatre positif\u00a0\u00bb, elles \u00ab\u00a0mettent\u00a0\u00bb quelque chose dans celui qui les poss\u00e8de.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Alors que les d\u00e9fauts, qui existent certainement (ils \u00ab\u00a0existent\u00a0\u00bb en effet&#8230; et ils \u00ab\u00a0existent\u00a0\u00bb), <strong>\n  <em>n&rsquo;ont pas<\/em>\n<\/strong> n&rsquo;ont pas de r\u00e9alit\u00e9 positive, mais, pr\u00e9cis\u00e9ment en tant que d\u00e9fauts, ils sont le manque ou l&rsquo;absence de quelque chose de d\u00fb : ils sont une modalit\u00e9 du <strong>\n  <em>non-\u00eatre<\/em>\n<\/strong>).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Le bon amour per\u00e7oit donc les d\u00e9fauts et les qualit\u00e9s de l&rsquo;\u00eatre aim\u00e9, bien s\u00fbr !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mais elle rel\u00e8gue les d\u00e9fauts au second plan ; elle privil\u00e9gie les qualit\u00e9s et s&rsquo;efforce de les faire grandir et \u00e9voluer&#8230; m\u00eame si cela implique parfois des souffrances pour soi et ses proches (conjoint, enfants).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>L&rsquo;amour bienveillant per\u00e7oit les d\u00e9fauts comme les qualit\u00e9s, mais il donne \u00e0 chacun sa vraie valeur et agit en cons\u00e9quence.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-el-mal-amor-es-ciego-y-no-responsable\">4. Le mauvais amour est&#8230; aveugle ! (et \u00ab\u00a0non responsable\u00a0\u00bb)<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Le \u00ab\u00a0mauvais amour\u00a0\u00bb, quant \u00e0 lui, est aveugle : il ne veut pas voir les d\u00e9fauts de l&rsquo;autre et ne veut pas lutter avec lui pour les surmonter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le <strong>\n  <em>mal<\/em>\n<\/strong> l&rsquo;amour <strong>\n  <em>l&rsquo;amour :<\/em>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>car si je les voyais, le \u00ab\u00a0plaisir\u00a0\u00bb (sans lutte) que provoque le fait de tomber amoureux dispara\u00eetrait :<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>on pr\u00e9f\u00e8re sa propre satisfaction du sentiment amoureux, on absolutise&#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>et passe avant le bien de la personne aim\u00e9e, qui n&rsquo;est pas aid\u00e9e \u00e0 s&rsquo;am\u00e9liorer.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Le <strong>\n  <em>mal<\/em>\n<\/strong> l&rsquo;amour <strong>\n  <em>paternel-maternel :<\/em>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>parce qu&rsquo;accepter les d\u00e9fauts des enfants entra\u00eenerait la douleur de les voir et de les leur faire voir&#8230;.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>et celle de travailler ensemble, avec engagement, pour lutter afin de les surmonter&#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>tout en assumant \u00e0 la premi\u00e8re personne (comme s&rsquo;il s&rsquo;agissait de la leur !) les in\u00e9vitables d\u00e9faites que cette lutte entra\u00eene.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>Le mauvais amour est aveugle : on s&rsquo;aime tellement soi-m\u00eame&#8230; qu&rsquo;on s&#8217;emp\u00eache de voir ce qui pourrait diminuer sa propre complaisance narcissique, m\u00eame si cela signifie ignorer le bien r\u00e9el de l&rsquo;\u00eatre aim\u00e9.  <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Celui qui aime, et qui aime bien, se soucie infiniment plus du d\u00e9veloppement et de l&rsquo;\u00e9panouissement de l&rsquo;\u00eatre aim\u00e9 que de sa propre souffrance.<br \/>\nLe \u00ab\u00a0mauvais amour\u00a0\u00bb, quant \u00e0 lui, est aveugle : il ne veut pas voir les d\u00e9fauts de l&rsquo;autre et ne veut pas lutter avec lui pour les surmonter.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1102,"featured_media":206553,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"give_campaign_id":0,"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"mc4wp_mailchimp_campaign":[],"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"subtitle":"Celui qui aime bien ne veut pas seulement que l'\u00eatre aim\u00e9 existe, mais aspire de tout son c\u0153ur \u00e0 \u00eatre bon.","format":"standard","video":"","gallery":"","source_name":"","source_url":"","via_name":"","via_url":"","override_template":"0","override":[{"template":"2","single_blog_custom":"","parallax":"1","fullscreen":"1","layout":"right-sidebar-narrow","sidebar":"default-sidebar","second_sidebar":"default-sidebar","sticky_sidebar":"1","share_position":"float","share_float_style":"share-normal","show_share_counter":"1","show_view_counter":"1","show_featured":"1","show_post_meta":"1","show_post_author":"1","show_post_author_image":"1","show_post_date":"1","post_date_format":"default","post_date_format_custom":"Y\/m\/d","show_post_category":"1","show_post_reading_time":"1","post_reading_time_wpm":"300","show_zoom_button":"0","zoom_button_out_step":"2","zoom_button_in_step":"3","show_post_tag":"1","show_prev_next_post":"0","show_popup_post":"0","number_popup_post":"1","show_author_box":"1","show_post_related":"0","show_inline_post_related":"0"}],"override_image_size":"0","image_override":[{"single_post_thumbnail_size":"crop-715","single_post_gallery_size":"crop-715"}],"trending_post":"0","trending_post_position":"meta","trending_post_label":"Trending","sponsored_post":"0","sponsored_post_label":"Sponsored by","sponsored_post_name":"","sponsored_post_url":"","sponsored_post_logo_enable":"0","sponsored_post_logo":"","sponsored_post_desc":"","disable_ad":"0"},"jnews_primary_category":{"id":"819","hide":""},"jnews_social_meta":{"fb_title":"","fb_description":"","fb_image":"","twitter_title":"","twitter_description":"","twitter_image":""},"jnews_override_counter":{"override_view_counter":"0","view_counter_number":"0","override_share_counter":"0","share_counter_number":"0","override_like_counter":"0","like_counter_number":"0","override_dislike_counter":"0","dislike_counter_number":"0"},"footnotes":""},"categories":[809,813,819],"tags":[26825,27880,27539,27881],"class_list":["post-207178","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-foreground-fr","category-breaking-news-fr","category-vie","tag-lamour-conjugal","tag-lamour-parental","tag-lamour","tag-mauvais-amour"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v25.9 (Yoast SEO v27.3) - 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