{"id":206385,"date":"2023-07-28T03:11:00","date_gmt":"2023-07-28T07:11:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ifamnews.com\/?p=206385"},"modified":"2023-07-28T01:12:31","modified_gmt":"2023-07-28T05:12:31","slug":"l-amour-dans-le-monde-contemporain-ii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ifamnews.com\/fr\/l-amour-dans-le-monde-contemporain-ii","title":{"rendered":"L’amour dans le monde contemporain (II)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Apprendre \u00e0 aimer : d\u00e9couvrir l’amour<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oublier ce que signifie aimer est l’un des maux les plus destructeurs de notre \u00e9poque. L’une des principales causes du d\u00e9senchantement et de la crispation qui affectent nombre de nos contemporains.
Car si l’amour est banni, confondu ou d\u00e9natur\u00e9, le bonheur et la joie (et m\u00eame la sant\u00e9 mentale, comme on peut le constater aujourd’hui) disparaissent avec lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Par cons\u00e9quent, si nous aspirons \u00e0 construire et \u00e0 consolider une civilisation plus saine, plus coh\u00e9rente, plus heureuse et plus porteuse d’espoir, nous devons commencer par \u00e9lever la cat\u00e9gorie humaine de la soci\u00e9t\u00e9 dans son ensemble dans cet aspect sp\u00e9cifique.
– En d’autres termes, nous devons apprendre nous-m\u00eames et aider les autres \u00e0 apprendre ce que signifie aimer, en th\u00e9orie et en pratique.
– Nous devons am\u00e9liorer notre connaissance de l’amour et notre fa\u00e7on de le vivre, et nous devons veiller \u00e0 ce que beaucoup d’autres fassent de m\u00eame.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oublier ce que signifie aimer est l’un des maux les plus profonds de notre culture : si l’amour est banni, confondu ou d\u00e9naturalis\u00e9, le bonheur et la joie disparaissent avec lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tout d’abord, en th\u00e9orie<\/strong> (mais jamais en dehors de la vie)
Pour commencer, nous devons tous \u00eatre clairs :
– Loin de s’effacer, presque dilu\u00e9e, dans ces effluves sentimentales auxquelles elle est souvent r\u00e9duite…
– Loin d’\u00eatre une simple fonction de la physiologie pure ou m\u00eame de la chimie, qui jouent incontestablement un r\u00f4le dans les relations de couple, les amiti\u00e9s, les relations entre fr\u00e8res et s\u0153urs, entre parents et enfants…
– Loin de se r\u00e9duire \u00e0 une simple stimulation du plaisir ou \u00e0 une r\u00e9alisation \u00e9gocentrique de soi, \u00e0 une sorte d’\u00e9go\u00efsme apparemment partag\u00e9 entre deux…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Loin de tout cela, l’amour est essentiellement un acte de volont\u00e9.
– Un acte dense, fort et stable, qui met toute la personne dans une tension fructueuse.
– Un acte de recherche, de vie et de bienveillance \u00e0 l’\u00e9gard de la personne aim\u00e9e.
– Une d\u00e9termination profonde, constante et renouvel\u00e9e d’aider l’\u00eatre aim\u00e9 \u00e0 \u00eatre heureux : <\/strong>presque, presque une obsession.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le c\u0153ur de l’amour est un acte de volont\u00e9, fort et durable, qui d\u00e9couvre, construit et d\u00e9livre le bien de l’\u00eatre aim\u00e9.
Description d’Aristote<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pour commencer \u00e0 \u00e9clairer le merveilleux myst\u00e8re de l’amour, nous pouvons nous tourner vers la description qu’en fait Aristote dans sa Rh\u00e9torique.
Le philosophe grec nous y dit qu’aimer, c’est \u00ab\u00a0vouloir le bien d’autrui comme d’un autre\u00a0\u00bb.
Trois \u00e9l\u00e9ments, intimement li\u00e9s, constitueraient la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 que nous recherchons :<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \n
  1. Vouloir<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. Le bon<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. Pour un autre<\/strong> (d\u00e8s qu’un autre).
    Un l\u00e9ger commentaire sur chacune de ces composantes nous mettra sur la bonne voie pour tenter de comprendre, avec plus de pr\u00e9cision et de profondeur, la nature de l’amour.
    Nous le ferons dans les articles suivants.
    Aimer, c’est vouloir le bien d’autrui, pr\u00e9cis\u00e9ment en tant qu’autrui.
    Une \u00ab\u00a0d\u00e9cision d\u00e9termin\u00e9e\u00a0\u00bb – presque une obsession – pour aider l’\u00eatre aim\u00e9 \u00e0 \u00eatre heureux.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

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    Si nous aspirons \u00e0 construire et \u00e0 consolider une civilisation plus saine, plus coh\u00e9rente, joyeuse et pleine d’espoir, nous devons apprendre nous-m\u00eames et aider les autres \u00e0 apprendre ce qu’est l’amour, en th\u00e9orie et en pratique.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1102,"featured_media":204865,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"give_campaign_id":0,"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"mc4wp_mailchimp_campaign":[],"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"subtitle":"Aimer, c'est vouloir le bien d'autrui. 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