{"id":204877,"date":"2023-07-18T03:55:53","date_gmt":"2023-07-18T07:55:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ifamnews.com\/?p=204877"},"modified":"2023-07-18T03:55:54","modified_gmt":"2023-07-18T07:55:54","slug":"l-amour-dans-le-monde-contemporain","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ifamnews.com\/fr\/l-amour-dans-le-monde-contemporain","title":{"rendered":"L’amour dans le monde contemporain"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

DE SE TROMPER D’AMOUR<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00ab\u00a0Se tromper d’amour est la perte la plus terrible, c’est une perte \u00e9ternelle, pour laquelle il n’y a pas de compensation dans le temps ou dans l’\u00e9ternit\u00e9. C’est-\u00e0-dire la privation la plus affreuse qui, si elle n’est pas corrig\u00e9e, ne trouve de rem\u00e8de ni dans cette vie ni dans la vie future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kierkegaard a \u00e9crit ces mots il y a plus d’un si\u00e8cle et demi. Mais ils n’ont rien perdu de leur valeur ni de leur pertinence. Au contraire, elles sont plus vivantes et contemporaines que lorsqu’elles ont \u00e9t\u00e9 \u00e9crites.
Sans aucun doute, comme \u00e0 n’importe quel autre moment de l’histoire, il y a de grands amours dans le pr\u00e9sent. Des amours fortes et profondes, juteuses et enthousiastes, nobles et ennoblissantes pour tous ceux qui les professent, et ils sont nombreux.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L’amour ne sera jamais banni de l’humanit\u00e9, car il est la grandeur et le besoin premier de tout homme et de toute femme : m\u00eame lorsque nous ne sommes pas conscients d’en avoir besoin.
Aimer plus et mieux est la seule fa\u00e7on possible de grandir en tant que personne et, par cons\u00e9quent, d’\u00eatre heureux. C’est pourquoi, comme \u00e0 toute autre \u00e9poque, l’amour est vivant aujourd’hui. L’amour ne sera jamais banni de l’humanit\u00e9 : c’est le besoin premier de tout homme et de toute femme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

LA TROMPERIE EN AMOUR<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mais, malheureusement, ce n’est pas tout. Ce n’est pas ce qui est dans l’air et ce que nous voyons souvent autour de nous. Ce n’est pas non plus ce que mettent en avant les m\u00e9dias, les r\u00e9seaux sociaux ou une grande partie des essais et de la litt\u00e9rature \u00e0 la mode.
Et ce n’est peut-\u00eatre pas sans raison.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si nous tenons compte de ces sources d’information et d’autres encore, nous devrions affirmer que dans le monde contemporain, il y a avant tout une abondance de trahisons de l’amour de ceux que nous pr\u00e9tendons aimer, c’est-\u00e0-dire ce que nous pourrions appeler des d\u00e9ceptions et des \u00e9checs amoureux.
Entre autres :<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Incapacit\u00e9 \u00e0 s’engager, infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 ou manque de loyaut\u00e9 entre conjoints, petits amis, petites amies, amis, partenaires, coll\u00e8gues, voisins…
– Le vide, l’indiff\u00e9rence, l’entraide, la cohabitation routini\u00e8re, les divorces, les s\u00e9parations, les ruptures, les agressions physiques ou psychologiques, les violences diverses…
– Abandon des grands-parents et, en g\u00e9n\u00e9ral, des personnes \u00e2g\u00e9es ou malades, dans des lieux o\u00f9 \u00ab\u00a0ils seront mieux soign\u00e9s qu’\u00e0 la maison\u00a0\u00bb…
– D\u00e9tachement et d\u00e9saffection des enfants par rapport \u00e0 leurs parents et vice versa, et des fr\u00e8res et s\u0153urs et autres membres de la famille les uns par rapport aux autres….
– N\u00e9gliger les personnes \u00e9conomiquement et professionnellement non rentables, qui sont ainsi ignor\u00e9es, marginalis\u00e9es ou exclues de la soci\u00e9t\u00e9 qui devrait les accueillir….<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dans le monde d’aujourd’hui, les d\u00e9ceptions et les \u00e9checs en mati\u00e8re d’amour sont l\u00e9gion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TROMPERIES \u00ab\u00a0SUR L’AMOUR<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Et ce n’est pas tout.
Quelque chose d’encore plus d\u00e9cisif et d\u00e9terminant, et beaucoup plus difficile \u00e0 admettre, se passe dans une civilisation qui se consid\u00e8re comme surd\u00e9velopp\u00e9e, notamment en termes de connaissances.
Dans de larges pans de la soci\u00e9t\u00e9 actuelle, le sens m\u00eame de l’amour, ce qu’il signifie lorsqu’il est bien compris, semble avoir \u00e9t\u00e9 perdu.
Et cela influence la connaissance et la vie elle-m\u00eame.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Nous sommes nombreux \u00e0 ne pas savoir ce qu’est l’amour.
– En cons\u00e9quence, nous ne savons pas aimer, ou du moins pas au degr\u00e9 et avec la finesse que nous devrions.
Beaucoup d’entre nous ne savent pas ce qu’est l’amour et, par cons\u00e9quent, nous ne savons pas comment aimer, du moins pas aussi intens\u00e9ment et gentiment que nous le devrions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

PROSTITUTION DES TERMES<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mais ce n’est pas tout.
Non seulement le sens de l’amour est inconnu, mais le terme a \u00e9t\u00e9 d\u00e9form\u00e9 et presque perverti ou prostitu\u00e9. Relativement souvent, ce que nous appelons l’amour est pr\u00e9sent\u00e9 comme un point de r\u00e9f\u00e9rence :
– Une sorte de sentimentalit\u00e9 diffuse et molle, incapable de satisfaire m\u00eame les aspirations l\u00e9gitimes d’un adolescent.
– Ou simplement des rapports physiques, comme dans l’expression aujourd’hui appauvrie de \u00ab\u00a0faire l’amour\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Expression aux antipodes de son sens premier : conqu\u00e9rir une personne ou la courtiser noblement, la faire grandir et l’aider \u00e0 se d\u00e9velopper en tant que personne. Et qu’elle est aussi \u00e9trang\u00e8re au sens merveilleux et profond de construire ensemble, au quotidien, l’amour de toute une existence : de la construire et de la faire vivre, notamment dans le mariage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il s’agit d’une ignorance ou d’une tromperie colossale et g\u00e9n\u00e9ralis\u00e9e sur l’amour, sa nature et sa signification la plus profonde.
Aujourd’hui, le sens m\u00eame de l’amour, ce qu’il signifie proprement, semble avoir disparu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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