{"id":145430,"date":"2022-12-27T10:52:07","date_gmt":"2022-12-27T15:52:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ifamnews.com\/?p=145430"},"modified":"2022-12-27T10:52:08","modified_gmt":"2022-12-27T15:52:08","slug":"du-sang-sur-nos-mains","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ifamnews.com\/fr\/du-sang-sur-nos-mains","title":{"rendered":"Du sang sur nos mains"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Une autre horrible fusillade dans une \u00e9cole a frapp\u00e9 l’Am\u00e9rique. Avant m\u00eame que le d\u00e9compte des corps ne soit achev\u00e9 \u00e0 Uvalde, au Texas, les m\u00e9dias accusaient les suspects habituels : les armes \u00e0 feu, la violence arm\u00e9e, le \u00ab\u00a0lobby des armes \u00e0 feu\u00a0\u00bb (pour reprendre les termes du pr\u00e9sident Biden), l’intimidation, le manque de financement des programmes de sant\u00e9 mentale, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Et si tous ces facteurs m\u00e9ritent certainement d’\u00eatre \u00e9tudi\u00e9s, un autre a \u00e9t\u00e9 pratiquement ignor\u00e9. Le tireur, Salvador Ramos, 18 ans, venait d’un foyer bris\u00e9. Selon \n El Pa\u00eds<\/a>\n<\/em>\u00ab\u00a0Ramos vivait avec ses deux grands-parents maternels.\u00a0\u00bb Sa m\u00e8re ne vivait pas avec eux, car elle \u00ab\u00a0traversait une mauvaise passe\u00a0\u00bb, selon un voisin. Son p\u00e8re \u00ab\u00a0n’a jamais \u00e9t\u00e9 pr\u00e9sent dans sa vie\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cela ne devrait pas \u00eatre surprenant, m\u00eame si la plupart des reportages sur les fusillades de masse ne le montrent pas. Il faut litt\u00e9ralement parcourir l’Internet pour trouver des rapports sur les ant\u00e9c\u00e9dents familiaux bris\u00e9s des tireurs. Dans la plupart des cas, ceux qui commettent de telles atrocit\u00e9s ont des parents divorc\u00e9s, s\u00e9par\u00e9s ou jamais mari\u00e9s. Vous vous souvenez de Dylann Roof, qui a tu\u00e9 neuf personnes dans une \u00e9glise afro-am\u00e9ricaine de Charleston en 2015 ? Il est n\u00e9 de parents divorc\u00e9s qui s’\u00e9taient remis ensemble assez longtemps pour concevoir un enfant, puis avaient rompu. Adam Lanza, qui a massacr\u00e9 vingt enfants et six adultes \u00e0 l’\u00e9cole primaire Sandy Hook ? Ses parents s’\u00e9taient s\u00e9par\u00e9s en 2002, alors que Lanza \u00e9tait encore \u00e0 l’\u00e9cole primaire, et ont finalement divorc\u00e9 en 2009. En effet, selon un rapport de la Heritage Foundation,<\/a> sur les 25 tireurs de masse les plus cit\u00e9s depuis Columbine (en 1999), 75 % sont issus de ce que l’on appelle traditionnellement des foyers bris\u00e9s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

En fait, 85 % des jeunes emprisonn\u00e9s sont issus de foyers sans p\u00e8re. Les chercheurs savent depuis des d\u00e9cennies que la rupture conjugale engendre des enfants perturb\u00e9s. Une \u00e9tude r\u00e9alis\u00e9e en 2010 par des chercheurs de l’universit\u00e9 de Towson, dans le Maryland, qui ont suivi des enfants du CP au coll\u00e8ge, a r\u00e9v\u00e9l\u00e9 que \u00ab\u00a0les niveaux \u00e9lev\u00e9s de violence dans le quartier et les pourcentages d’hommes c\u00e9libataires et de m\u00e9nages dirig\u00e9s par une femme sont li\u00e9s \u00e0 une augmentation du comportement agressif\u00a0\u00bb chez les gar\u00e7ons \u00e9tudi\u00e9s. (Une autre \u00e9tude de 2010, publi\u00e9e dans la revue European Child and Adolescent Psychology<\/em>, a r\u00e9v\u00e9l\u00e9 que les \u00e9l\u00e8ves qui pratiquaient l’intimidation et<\/em>, fait int\u00e9ressant, ceux qui en \u00e9taient victimes, provenaient g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement de m\u00e9nages dont les parents \u00e9taient divorc\u00e9s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

De m\u00eame, une \u00e9tude norv\u00e9gienne de 2013 a r\u00e9v\u00e9l\u00e9 que les enfants de parents divorc\u00e9s avaient tendance \u00e0 avoir une plus grande incidence de probl\u00e8mes psychologiques, y compris des probl\u00e8mes d’int\u00e9riorisation <\/em>comme la d\u00e9pression et l’anxi\u00e9t\u00e9 et des probl\u00e8mes d’ext\u00e9riorisation<\/em> comme l’agression – des faits que les commentateurs des maladies psychiatriques chez les tireurs ont tendance \u00e0 ignorer. Une autre \u00e9tude, datant de 2005 et publi\u00e9e dans le Journal of Early Adolescence<\/em>, a r\u00e9v\u00e9l\u00e9 que le manque d’attachement des enfants adolescents \u00e0 leur m\u00e8re \u00e9tait le plus fortement corr\u00e9l\u00e9 aux probl\u00e8mes psychiatriques d’int\u00e9riorisation. Mais la distance qui les s\u00e9parait de leur p\u00e8re \u00e9tait associ\u00e9e \u00e0 une plus grande incidence de \u00ab\u00a0probl\u00e8mes d’ext\u00e9riorisation\u00a0\u00bb, notamment \u00ab\u00a0l’hyperactivit\u00e9, l’impulsivit\u00e9, l’agressivit\u00e9 et la d\u00e9linquance\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il ne s’agit l\u00e0 que d’une poign\u00e9e d’\u00e9tudes de ce type, qui sont bien plus nombreuses. Alors pourquoi n’entendons-nous pas parler de ces connexions ? Nous vivons \u00e0 une \u00e9poque \u00e9go\u00efste, une \u00e9poque o\u00f9 les besoins des enfants sont activement ignor\u00e9s au profit des d\u00e9sirs des adultes. C’est une \u00e9poque o\u00f9 un couple peut d\u00e9cider de sortir et de rompre, de se marier et de divorcer, avec un ou deux enfants par-ci par-l\u00e0, et o\u00f9 les d\u00e9cideurs, les psychiatres et les m\u00e9decins se pr\u00e9cipitent pour les rassurer que leur comportement n’aura pas d’effets durables sur les enfants. Tout le monde sera mieux loti, tant que les parents sont \u00ab\u00a0heureux\u00a0\u00bb. Toutes les formes de famille sont \u00e9gales. Les enfants sont \u00ab\u00a0r\u00e9silients\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mais ce ne sont que des mensonges, des mensonges qui se manifestent par la violence de fusillades comme celle d’Uvalde cette semaine. Et tant que nous perp\u00e9tuerons ces mensonges, nous continuerons \u00e0 \u00eatre victimes d’issues aussi brutales.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Cet article a \u00e9t\u00e9 adapt\u00e9 d’une chronique<\/a> parue dans SALVO<\/em> 35).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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