{"id":204859,"date":"2023-07-24T01:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-07-24T05:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ifamnews.com\/?p=204859"},"modified":"2023-07-17T17:54:10","modified_gmt":"2023-07-17T21:54:10","slug":"el-amor-en-el-mundo-contempor-neo-ii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ifamnews.com\/es\/el-amor-en-el-mundo-contempor-neo-ii","title":{"rendered":"El amor en el mundo contempor\u00e1neo (II)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Aprender a amar: descubrir el amor<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

El olvido de lo que implica amar constituye uno de los males m\u00e1s destructivos de nuestra \u00e9poca. Una de las causas principales del desencanto y la crispaci\u00f3n que afectan a bastantes de nuestros contempor\u00e1neos.
Y es que, desterrado, confundido o desnaturalizado el amor, se esfuman con \u00e9l la felicidad y la dicha (e incluso la salud mental, como puede comprobarse hoy d\u00eda).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por eso, si aspiramos a levantar e ir consolidando una civilizaci\u00f3n m\u00e1s sana, consistente, alegre y esperanzada, hemos de empezar por elevar, en este aspecto concreto, la categor\u00eda humana del conjunto de la sociedad.
\u00b7 Es decir, hemos de aprender nosotros mismos y ayudar a que los dem\u00e1s tambi\u00e9n aprendan lo que es amar, en la teor\u00eda y en la pr\u00e1ctica.
\u00b7 Hemos de mejorar nuestro conocimiento del amor y nuestro modo de vivirlo y procurar que otros muchos tambi\u00e9n lo hagan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

El olvido de lo que significa amar constituye uno de los males m\u00e1s hondos de nuestra cultura: desterrado, confundido o desnaturalizado el amor, se esfuman con \u00e9l la felicidad y la dicha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Primero, en la teor\u00eda<\/strong> (aunque nunca al margen de la vida)
Para comenzar, todos habremos de tener claro que:
\u00b7 Lejos de difuminarse, hasta casi diluirse, en esos efluvios sentimentales a los que a menudo se lo reduce\u2026
\u00b7 Lejos de constituir tan solo una funci\u00f3n de pura fisiolog\u00eda o incluso de mera qu\u00edmica, que sin duda intervienen en las relaciones de pareja, en las de amistad, entre los hermanos y entre padres e hijos\u2026
\u00b7 Lejos de reducirse a un mero est\u00edmulo para el placer o la autorrealizaci\u00f3n egoc\u00e9ntrica, a una suerte de ego\u00edsmo a dos, aparentemente compartido\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lejos de todo eso, el amor est\u00e1 esencialmente constituido por un acto de la voluntad.
\u00b7 Un acto denso, recio y estable, que pone en fecunda tensi\u00f3n a toda la persona.
\u00b7 Un acto con el que se busca, se da vida y se ofrece el bien al ser querido.
\u00b7 Una decidida decisi\u00f3n, profunda, constante y renovada de ayudar a ser feliz a quien amamos: <\/strong>casi, casi una obsesi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

El n\u00facleo del amor es un acto de voluntad, recio y duradero, que descubre, confecciona y entrega el bien del ser querido.
La descripci\u00f3n de Arist\u00f3teles<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para comenzar a esclarecer el maravilloso misterio del amor, podemos acudir a la descripci\u00f3n que nos ofrece Arist\u00f3teles en su Ret\u00f3rica.
Nos dice all\u00ed el fil\u00f3sofo griego que amar es \u00abquerer el bien para otro en cuanto otro\u00bb.
Tres elementos, \u00edntimamente ligados, compondr\u00edan la realidad que andamos buscando:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \n
  1. Querer<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. El bien<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. Para otro<\/strong> (en cuanto otro).
    Un ligero comentario de cada uno de estos componentes nos situar\u00e1 en la v\u00eda adecuada para intentar comprender, con m\u00e1s precisi\u00f3n y hondura, la naturaleza del amor.
    Lo haremos en art\u00edculos sucesivos.
    Amar es querer el bien para otro, precisamente en cuanto otro.
    Una \u201cdecidida decisi\u00f3n\u201d \u2014casi una obsesi\u00f3n\u2014 por ayudar a ser feliz a quien amamos.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

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