{"id":15643,"date":"2020-05-06T11:49:34","date_gmt":"2020-05-06T16:49:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ifamnews.com\/?p=15643"},"modified":"2022-06-16T10:45:03","modified_gmt":"2022-06-16T14:45:03","slug":"daddy-war-rooms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ifamnews.com\/en\/daddy-war-rooms","title":{"rendered":"Daddy War Rooms"},"content":{"rendered":"

Last updated on June 16th, 2022 at 10:45 am<\/p>\n

[This article originally appeared in SALVO (www.salvomag.com<\/a>) on May 1, 2020; it is reproduced here with permission. \u2013 Ed.]<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In one of the few live sporting events of this pandemic-ridden season, the NFL draft was held virtually. Instead of being hunkered down in \u201cwar rooms,\u201d which ESPN described<\/a> as \u201cmodeled in some cases after military briefing centers,\u201d [1] the general managers, head coaches, draftees, and various other personnel were live-streamed from their home offices or living rooms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

By all accounts, the event was a huge success<\/a> [2]\u2014not least because of all the kids around. In shot after shot, various GMs and coaches were seen staring intently at their computers, with their kids at their elbows. ESPN commented, \u201cThe shots of kids draped over NFL decision-makers humanized the event.\u201d And the NFL staff members themselves reported that \u201cThe family time was by far the best part of the draft for the teams involved.\u201d In a \u201cnormal\u201d pre-pandemic world, many of these kids wouldn\u2019t\u2019 have seen much of their dads for weeks before the draft. (And I say \u201cdads\u201d because these are guys. There are currently no female head coaches or general managers in the NFL.) Managers would have been out scouting, conferencing, calling, meeting, poring over data, and otherwise trying to make sure they had all of the information they needed for draft night\u2014one of the biggest, highest-stakes events in the NFL every year.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But as ESPN reports, this year was different. Jacksonville Jaguars General Manager Dave Caldwell joked that his 13-year-old son, David Michael, gave him \u201call the advice.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019ve been working from home the last 40 days, and he deserves to be a part of it,\u201d Caldwell said. \u201cThe whole process was rewarding, from a teamwork standpoint [with the Jaguars] and being with the family.\u201d Miami Dolphins head coach Brian Flores<\/a> was \u201call smiles\u201d with his sons, Miles and Maxwell, \u201ccelebrating with hand slaps and having the boys say hello to the franchise\u2019s newest savior, quarterback Tua Tagovailoa, on the phone.\u201d [3] He later confessed he had told his boys earlier that day that they couldn\u2019t go to the draft if they didn\u2019t take a nap, and also<\/a>, \u201cI haven\u2019t spent this much time with my family\u2014my kids, my wife (Jennifer)\u2014in a long time and it\u2019s been great to sit down and eat dinner, to help my kids with their homework.\u201d [4]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And the tension level? Seemingly low, given how relaxed these coaches and managers appeared. Instead of wearing suits, clustered with dozens of other people in the war room, these guys for the most part wore jeans or other casual clothes. They lounged comfortably in their home office set-ups. They joked with their children. They had their kids wave at the camera. ESPN and others have noted that even when the world does return to normal, perhaps the League can and should take some lessons from this draft\u2014particularly around lessening some of the travel and pre-draft stress for some personnel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In what is undoubtedly a stressful and worrying time, it was a delight to see these men comfortably at home with their families. And even more of a delight is to realize that perhaps for the first time ever, these kids got an extreme close-up of what their dads do on a daily basis. Work and family life have become increasingly segmented in America since the days of the Industrial Revolution, which first took man, woman, and child out of the home and sent them to different factories. Up until that point, families did their most important work together, in the home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One hidden blessing (though certainly also a challenge) of COVID-19 has been that families are once again conducting their most important work\u2014whether that be education, care-taking, or wage-earning jobs\u2014inside the walls of the family home. For the first time, many children are getting an exceptionally good idea of what their parents actually do all day. And many parents are coming to better understand what their children do all day as well, how they are faring academically, and how the family functions together on a day-to-day basis, without so many of the distractions of modern-day life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The kids of the NFL got to hang out with their dads this year, the dads got to hang out with their families, and NFL families were able to participate together in one of the most important work days of the year. Atlanta Falcons GM Thomas Dimitroff even admitted that the \u201cquiet and relaxing\u201d environment of his home triggered \u201cclean thinking.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is something to celebrate, and hopefully, something we all can continue to learn from after COVID-19 clears.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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[1]<\/a> Kevin Seifert, \u201c2020 NFL draft biggest takeaways: Surprises, lingering questions and lots of dogs,\u201d ESPN, April 25, 2020, available at https:\/\/espn.com\/nfl\/draft2020\/story\/_\/id\/29097982\/2020-nfl-draft-biggest-takeaways-surprises-lingering-questions-lots-dogs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[2]<\/a> Jeremy Fowler, \u201cStories inside the virtual 2020 NFL draft: 10 GMs on what they learned,\u201d ESPN, April 29, 2020, available at https:\/\/espn.com\/nfl\/draft2020\/story\/_\/id\/29110271\/stories-virtual-2020-nfl-draft-10-gms-learned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[3]<\/a> Tom D\u2019Angelo, \u201cNFL Draft: Kids, cribs and uncomfortable clips made this the most entertaining draft ever,\u201d Palm Beach Post<\/em>, April 26, 2020, available at https:\/\/palmbeachpost.com\/sports\/20200426\/nfl-draft-kids-cribs-and-uncomfortable-clips-made-this-most-entertaining-draft-ever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[4]<\/a> Alex Busse, \u201cNFL Draft becomes family event,\u201d The Daily Illini<\/em>, April 27, 2020, available at https:\/\/dailyillini.com\/sports\/2020\/04\/27\/nfl-draft-family-event\/.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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