{"id":12156,"date":"2020-03-23T08:45:09","date_gmt":"2020-03-23T13:45:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ifamnews.com\/?p=12156"},"modified":"2020-03-23T08:45:14","modified_gmt":"2020-03-23T13:45:14","slug":"coronavirus-crisis-reminds-us-of-eternal-truths-of-marriage-and-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ifamnews.com\/en\/coronavirus-crisis-reminds-us-of-eternal-truths-of-marriage-and-family","title":{"rendered":"Coronavirus Crisis Reminds Us of Eternal Truths of Marriage and Family"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>In today\u2019s modern world, seemingly everything has been\ntransformed into something political. Eternal truths and universal lived experiences\nare ignored, cast aside and ridiculed as outdated and even bigoted. Institutions\nlike marriage and family are remade into political paradigms to serve emerging\nideologies. Even science is scorned in order to advance gender ideology.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But despite the constant attempts by groups, especially\nthose on the left, to turn everything into a political matter, much of life has\nnothing to do with politics and ideology. Take marriage for example. There is\nnothing about the institution of marriage that is political despite the left\u2019s\nceaseless efforts to turn marriage into a political battle as they have sought\nto redefine it in the law in countless countries around the globe. Marriage is\nwhat it is \u2013 a universal, timeless relationship between men and women that\nbrings the two halves of humanity together in order to form families to care\nfor the children born of their union. This has been its purpose since the dawn\nof time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From time to time, world developments transcend politics and\nwe find ourselves retreating to the safety and familiarity of eternal truths. We\nare in just such a moment with the COVID-19 coronavirus crisis. &nbsp;All around the world, whether by force of\ngovernment edict or simple common sense, people are turning inward to protect\nthemselves and their children. As people shelter in place or practice the new\nart of \u201csocial distancing,\u201d many are rediscovering the universal lived\nexperience that families with children anchored by marriage are better positioned\nto handle the crisis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, there are some practical elements to this. With two\nparents at home, the couple can share responsibilities or deal with the\nparticulars of sheltering in place. Perhaps one is better positioned to work\nfrom home; perhaps another can then be freed up to conduct home schooling or\nsupervise distance learning. One spouse might be more vulnerable to being laid\noff than the other spouse. Another might have better access to financial\nsupports. Research shows that married couples are more economically stable and\naccumulate more wealth than either single parents or those in cohabitating\nrelationships. That will prove most helpful during this crisis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But beyond the economics are family dynamics. The essence of\nthe marriage relationship is complementarity. Men and women are made for each\nother, body and soul, equal in every way. But equality does not equate to\nsameness. Men and women are not the same, they bring different strengths and\napproaches to everyday life, including to the care of children. This will be\nuseful and beneficial for children, now during the crisis and later when it\nsubsides. A child at home with both mom and dad is likely to experience first\nhand what research has clearly documented:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>A mother\u2019s inherent instinct is to protect her\nchild, while a father will push his\nchild to take risks.<\/li><li>The\ntwo will play differently with the child, the mother preferring orderly,\nrule-based games, the father preferring more physical activity, roughhousing\nand spontaneous activity with fewer rules.<\/li><li>Dad\nwill joke more with the child than mom, who is more serious.<\/li><li>The\ntwo will discipline their child in different ways. Mom gives more chances and\nfewer punishments while dad will act more decisively and predictably.<\/li><li>Dad\nwill praise the child when he feels the child deserves praise, while mom is\nlikely to offer praise as a means of providing comfort and to boost self-esteem.\nAs a result, children often work hard to gain the praise of their fathers.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Eventually, God willing, the COVID-19 crisis will pass and\nwe will return to what we hope will be a normal existence. When this happens, I\nhope that we don\u2019t forget the eternal truths of marriage, and what it means for\nchildren and families. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The overwhelming body of evidence collected by social\nscientists demonstrates that children raised in a family with their married\nmother and father are much more likely to enjoy good and healthy relationships\nwith their parents, and with others. They will enjoy better physical and mental\nhealth and experience less family instability. They achieve greater educational\nattainment, including getting better grades and have a lesser chance of being\nheld back and ultimately dropping out of school.&nbsp; These children graduate from high school at a\nhigher rate. They will be more likely to graduate from college and obtain jobs\nwith higher occupational status and earnings, and will experience less\nunemployment and economic hardship. Boys raised in an intact home typically\nexperience less juvenile delinquency and incarceration, while girls raised in\nan intact home have a lesser incidence of experiencing a teen pregnancy.\nChildren raised by their married parents will have much less chance of\nexperiencing poverty while growing up. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No other family structure comes close to delivering the enormous\nbenefits to couples and children that does marriage between a man and a woman.\nNot single parents. Not same sex parents. Not parents who cohabitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In reality, we didn\u2019t need social scientists to tell us all\nthe benefits of marriage, not only for couples and children, but for entire\nsocieties. The benefits are obvious, observable and experienced by virtually\nevery culture throughout history. \n\n\n\nPerhaps we might be well-advised during this\ncrisis to resolve to stop treating natural marriage as a political matter and\nstart promoting it as an essential institution integral to enhancing human flourishing.\n\n\n\n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As people shelter in place or practice the new art of \u201csocial distancing,\u201d many are rediscovering the universal lived experience that families with children anchored by marriage are better positioned to handle the crisis.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":35,"featured_media":12184,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"give_campaign_id":0,"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"mc4wp_mailchimp_campaign":[],"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"subtitle":"As people shelter in place or practice the new art of \u201csocial distancing,\u201d many are rediscovering the universal lived experience that families with children anchored by marriage are better positioned to handle the crisis.","format":"standard","video":"","gallery":"","source_name":"","source_url":"","via_name":"","via_url":"","override":[{"single_blog_custom":"","sidebar":"","second_sidebar":"","share_position":"","share_float_style":"","post_date_format":"","post_date_format_custom":"","post_reading_time_wpm":"","zoom_button_out_step":"1","zoom_button_in_step":"1","number_popup_post":"1"}],"image_override":[{"single_post_thumbnail_size":"","single_post_gallery_size":""}],"trending_post_position":"","trending_post_label":""},"jnews_primary_category":{"id":"510"},"jnews_social_meta":{"fb_title":"","fb_description":"","fb_image":"","twitter_title":"","twitter_description":"","twitter_image":""},"jnews_override_counter":{"view_counter_number":"0","share_counter_number":"0","like_counter_number":"0","dislike_counter_number":"0"},"footnotes":""},"categories":[510,805],"tags":[2340,1587,911,427],"class_list":["post-12156","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-family","category-foreground","tag-cornonavirus","tag-covid-19","tag-family","tag-marriage"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v25.9 (Yoast SEO v27.3) - 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